Tell me how you will feel if you have 1000 percent certitude that the money you need will come your way, you will never be broke, you will have good health, you will have the job you want, you will have good friends. You will constantly enjoy all the good things in life!!! I am sure that you will get up every day full of fire, a big smile in your face, your day will be very short for you because you fully enjoy it. Let’s say now that it is you, only ‘you’ who create and make all these good things happen in your life. You will say what! How can I make my day juicy with all my problems and the difficult situations I am going through? Let me assure you, you can. Here are 3 simple steps that if you follow them your daily life will be sweet like a honey, I can guarantee it.
1 ) Have a compelling dream. What I mean by compelling dream is that you have to have goals and objectives in your life. Those goals must be a must and very excited and compelled for you. Motivational coaches used to ask people to have big dreams in life. I don’t totally share that point of view. It is good to have big dreams but there are some small things that are very small and simple but very difficult for most people today. These simple things are: smile a lot in our day time, spend quiet moment with ourselves, say a prayer…. Many people have achieved big dreams in their life but totally fail to do thing like the one I mentioned. So for me if we want a juicy day for ourselves, we must have goal like these: spend time with ourselves, spend time with our spouse, or children, spend time to be connected to our creator, spend time to be connected with nature ( looking the sky in the night , watch the zoo, feed animals, travel to a very beautiful natural environment.) In our modern society when we talk about dreams and goals, people think about fancy car, big house or own a business, all these things are good but the truth is they rarely give a juicy, sweet, joy, happiness to their owner. Now, for us big dreams mean : spend time with ourselves, spend time with our spouse, or children, spend time to be connected to our creator, spend time to be connected with nature( looking the sky in the night , watch the zoo, feed animals, travel to a very beautiful natural environment or whatever). Spending time in these things has always created a life full of hope, joy, and fulfillment, inner peace. I don’t care whether you are rich or poor, whether you are fat or thin, whether you are ugly or not… Please just try it and tell me how you feel by trying it.
2) Focus your eyes on positive things in life. We live in a society full of negativity: poverty, sickness, war, terrorism, cost of living too high, stress, unemployment etc. That is the reality and the media constantly pore in our mind all these sad news. Please I am not saying to deny the reality but the truth is if you let a sad reality or bad news rule your day, you will pay the price by being negative, full of anxiety, angry, and hopeless. Here is the secret, the sad reality is there but you don’t spend your time to over analyze and think about it but you think on how you can change the situation and create a wonderful life. Rule your mind, don’t let negative situations rule you.
3) Surround yourself with positive people. Yes, there are people who do great things in life. These people are those who do not complaint about the way things are going in life but they create some solutions that give results . These people are stuck to their marriage, they spend great time with their family, they volunteer for good cause. Instead of taking, they give and they contribute… You want to be happy and full hope, hang on with people like that.
Here are my last words for you: ''The hopeful man sees success where others see failure, sunshine where other see shadows and storm.'' O. S. MARDEN
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