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3 simple steps to live a life full of hope, good expectancy.
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Tell me how you will feel if you have 1000 percent certitude that the money you need will come your way, you will never be broke, you will have good health, you will have the job you want, you will have good friends. You will constantly enjoy all the good things in life!!! I am sure that you will get up every day full of fire, a big smile in your face, your day will be very short for you because you fully enjoy it. Let’s say now that it is you, only ‘you’ who create and make all these good things happen in your life. You will say what! How can I make my day juicy with all my problems and the difficult situations I am going through? Let me assure you, you can. Here are 3 simple steps that if you follow them your daily life will be sweet like a honey, I can guarantee it.
1 ) Have a compelling dream. What I mean by compelling dream is that you have to have goals and objectives in your life. Those goals must be a must and very excited and compelled for you. Motivational coaches used to ask people to have big dreams in life. I don’t totally share that point of view. It is good to have big dreams but there are some small things that are very small and simple but very difficult for most people today. These simple things are: smile a lot in our day time, spend quiet moment with ourselves, say a prayer…. Many people have achieved big dreams in their life but totally fail to do thing like the one I mentioned. So for me if we want a juicy day for ourselves, we must have goal like these: spend time with ourselves, spend time with our spouse, or children, spend time to be connected to our creator, spend time to be connected with nature ( looking the sky in the night , watch the zoo, feed animals, travel to a very beautiful natural environment.) In our modern society when we talk about dreams and goals, people think about fancy car, big house or own a business, all these things are good but the truth is they rarely give a juicy, sweet, joy, happiness to their owner. Now, for us big dreams mean : spend time with ourselves, spend time with our spouse, or children, spend time to be connected to our creator, spend time to be connected with nature( looking the sky in the night , watch the zoo, feed animals, travel to a very beautiful natural environment or whatever). Spending time in these things has always created a life full of hope, joy, and fulfillment, inner peace. I don’t care whether you are rich or poor, whether you are fat or thin, whether you are ugly or not… Please just try it and tell me how you feel by trying it.
2) Focus your eyes on positive things in life. We live in a society full of negativity: poverty, sickness, war, terrorism, cost of living too high, stress, unemployment etc. That is the reality and the media constantly pore in our mind all these sad news. Please I am not saying to deny the reality but the truth is if you let a sad reality or bad news rule your day, you will pay the price by being negative, full of anxiety, angry, and hopeless. Here is the secret, the sad reality is there but you don’t spend your time to over analyze and think about it but you think on how you can change the situation and create a wonderful life. Rule your mind, don’t let negative situations rule you.
3) Surround yourself with positive people. Yes, there are people who do great things in life. These people are those who do not complaint about the way things are going in life but they create some solutions that give results . These people are stuck to their marriage, they spend great time with their family, they volunteer for good cause. Instead of taking, they give and they contribute… You want to be happy and full hope, hang on with people like that.
Here are my last words for you: ''The hopeful man sees success where others see failure, sunshine where other see shadows and storm.'' O. S. MARDEN
Wednesday, August 7, 2013
HOW TO HOLD YOUR FEAR INTO THE PALM OF YOUR HAND AND CRUNCH IT LIKE AN EGG
Many things have been said and written about fear. There
are plenty of books on this subject. I will not bore you with something
else. I want you to keep in mind that if
you do not analyze your life, to search the areas of your life where there is
some fear and face it, you will never experiment the true freedom. Fear is the
number one prison in life, and this prison keeps more than 90 percent of people
in its. Most people are afraid of being old, most people are afraid of being
poor, most people are afraid of being fat, most people are afraid of being
sick. Most people on earth feel insecure… And you know what? When you feel some
emotion, you call it to become true in your real life. Why? Because our mind is
designed to drive us towards our predominant emotion and to create its
equivalent in our real world. The solution? Instead of focusing your mind and
emotion on what you fear, why not focusing your mind in what you want in life.
Instead of constantly thinking of lack, scarcity, poverty, illness, insecurity…
why not let your mind be driven by prosperity, abundance, security strong
health even if your real world say the contrary.
There is
nothing more liar than our real world, especially if our real world is full of
problems.
Our real world tends to say to us that, this problem
will be permanent and that things are not going to change in our favor. We analyze
the problem and the only conclusion we take is that nothing cannot change in
our life. But the truth is that everything changes in life, especially
difficult situations. If each of us truly faces with courage any challenge that
life gives us, we will notice that our fear is only there because we allow them
to be there, in our mind.
If we decide to kick it out of our mind, by facing the
problems, I don’t care whether it is a big problem or not, by taking action
toward the solutions not the problem, we will start our journey towards our
inner freedom and our physical freedom by the way.
Fear stop us to enjoy life and it make the problems
bigger than it is, and the ugly part of fear is that it never, never, never
gives us the solutions to escape our problems. Why most people find themselves
in the trap of fear? It is because fear knocks to our door in the first moment
that a problem occurs in our live and pretends to protect us to solve our problems;
nothing can not be a big liar and a big trap to us. Fear usually knock to our
door in unconscious ways, I mean our subconscious. Please never listen to the
voice of fear, when it knock to your door please, don’t open, call courage and faith to come to
rescue you from your mess? My last words for you are:
1)
Each time you face your fear, you
gain strength, courage, and confidence in the doing.
2)
Running to your fear is a race
you will never win.
3)
Courage is resistance to fear,
mastery of fear not absence of fear.
Mark Twain.
10 FAMOUS QUOTES TO LIFT HIGHER YOUR FAITH
The power of quotes is very incredible for our mind
and our thinking. A quote can change the way we think and can gives us the
power to change things in our life.
To make things happen in our life, whether it is to
buy a new car, come out of defeat and setbacks, the only tool that is mostly
required from us is faith. This tool has worked then and will always work. It
is a law set by the creator of universe and this law will never change. So if
you want to make things happen in your life, just apply the law that those who
made these things happen before you have applied. For me faith is a skill that
everybody shall learn. One of the ways
to master this skill is to read and meditate on powerful quotes on faith like the
one I will share with you.
1)
Belief consists in accepting the
affirmations of the soul; unbelief, in denying them. Ralph Waldo Emerson.
2)
Every tomorrow has two handles; we
can take hold of it with the handle of anxiety or the handle of faith. Henry
Ward Beecher
3)
Faith is the seamstress
Who
mends our torn belief
who
sews the hem of childhood trust
And
clips the thread of grief. Joan walsh Anglund
4)
The reason why birds can fly and we
can’t is simply that they have perfect faith, for to have faith is to have
wings. James M. Barrie
5)
Faith is the bird that feels the
light when the dawn is still dark. Sir Rabindranash Tagore.
6)
“You cannot
expect victory and plan for defeat.”
― Joel Osteen
― Joel Osteen
7) “Don’t just accept whatever comes your way in life. You were born to win;
you were born for greatness; you were created to be a champion in life.”
― Joel Osteen
― Joel Osteen
8)
For truly I say to you , if you have
faith the size of a mustard grain, you will say to this mountain, ‘transfer
from here to there’, and it will transfer, and nothing will be impossible to
you. Lord JESUS
9)
“Never be afraid to trust an unknown
future to a known God.” Corrie ten Boom
10)
“All I have seen teaches me to trust
the Creator for all I have not seen.”
― Ralph Waldo Emerson
― Ralph Waldo Emerson
5 SIMPLE WAYS TO KEEP YOUR ENTHUSIAM SOAR
I will
start this article by defining the word ‘’enthusiasm’’. According to Webster
dictionary, ‘’enthusiam’’ means: fire, spirit, force; ardor, zeal, fervor,
vehemence, eagerness; optimism, assurance.
The truth is that today, it is very
difficult to live a life full of zeal, fire, ardor…why? Because, there is
always something there that steal our joy, our passion , our enthusiasm. Maybe,
we are sick and there is no ways to be recover, maybe it is our finanance that
is in a lousy state, maybe our marriage doesn’t work, maybe we are single and
we haven’t find a mate or maybe, it’s a dream that doesn’t work. Problems and
setbacks of all kind are always there in the road of our life and if we didn’t
pay attention, we end up living without joy, passion. We become just like a tasteless
water. It’s not bitter, it is not sweet.
I have here 5 simple ways that I believe can give enthusiasm to he who
is down or lost his passion for life.
1) Be aware that setbacks,
difficulties, problems and situations that steal our joy and passion for life
are part of life.
No matter be our power, our
wisdom or our riches, we cannot totally avoid difficult situations. The only
thing that we can do is to limit those difficult situations in our life and
prepare our mind and our emotion to continue to enjoy life although we are
dealing with difficult situations. So, be aware that setbacks and trouble of
all kind are there and will always be there in the life of human being. But it
still possible to live well and have constantly a spirit full of joy, fire, and
optimism.
2)Always put your whole heart in
everything that you do.
The energy
that we put in what we do make a difference whether we will be happy or lack
passion by doing it. For example, if you are repairing a car, put all your
heart in this work; don’t think about anything else, especially about your problems.
Be where you are. If you are cooking; put all your heart in the cooking. The
Bible says: all that your hand finds to do, do with your very power.
The next
step is
3 STAY
PRODUCTIVE
You cannot live a life full of zeal fire,
passion, and enthusiasm if you do not produce or you don’t create anything and
you stay there to take and get things from government, family or friends.
Everyone of us has something to give and to contribute on this earth. By just
stand up every morning asking yourself, what shall I contribute today? I think useful
ideas will come in your mind. Your contribution may be writing a book, starting
a business or helping someone else who is in trouble or wharever. There are
plenty of problems in our life that need
solutions. By giving your part even in a small scale, you will be happy.
The next
way is
4) Run
your own race
You don’t need to compare yourself to somebody
who has the success or the things you want in life. Please try to be your best
and always compete with yourself. Every human being is unique and it is useless
to compare yourself to somebody else. Always remember that there will always be
somebody else who has something more than you. Thank god and be grateful with
what you are and what you have.
The next step is
5) READ POSITIF BOOKS
We are what see and we are what we watch and
what we read. Through the day our mind is constantly bombarded with all kind of
negative things through the radio, TV, internet, everywhere, sadness and
negative things come. When we are in an environment like that it is easy to lose
your enthusiasm, joy. So to lift up your
mind, you have to feed your mind on a regular basis like you regularly take a
bath or regularly eat food. You have to read and listen to inspirational and
motivational books every day.
My last
words are to give you these assignments. I don’t know the reason why you lose
your passion for life, what I want for you to do is to tell you to tell your heart or your mind to laugh again if it’s
a long time you laughed ok, go… If somebody hurt you, tell your heart to
forgive, if a dream doesn’t work out , tell your heart to dream again,if you
lose hope in the future, tell your heart to believe and trust again. Get up
every day excited and full of fire to burn all the negative things that are in
your mind and in your life.
4 EASY STEPS TO STOP WORRY
We are
living in a world today where there are plenty of things to worry about. Among
those things that most people have a great worry about are their job : they ask
themselves, what if I lose my job? They have a great concern about their future,
what if I become sick? What if my marriage fails? Will I get sufficient money for my retirement?
What if I lose my clients? These are
just a few questions that most people use to ask themselves and all these
questions have one thing in common: the
future is dark. We want to control the future or we want to know what the
future hold for us. Since we can’t, we start losing our joy for life and we
start looking the future with worry, anxiety and we panic. By doing this, we
start creating a future that we don’t like, why? Because our thinking pattern,
our emotion create what we experience in life whether it is good or bad. Here
are four steps that I strongly believe can help anyone to live a life full of
joy and happiness.
1) STRONG
WILLING
What do I
mean by strong willing is that every one of us who want to live a good life
must consciously decide to live so. You must decide for yourself that you want
a life full of joy, happiness, you must decide that you want to totally quit
worrying even though your real world is full of many things to worry about (sickness,
lack of money, jobless, divorce, problems with justice, you are too old just to
name a few). Why is it important for us to have a strong willing ? Because ’’
worry, anxiety’’ are powerful tools that our mind use to destroy our life, to
keep us from joy, from happiness, from having a life full of fulfillment and
especially to destroy our dreams, our destiny. The mane objective of worry is
to ruin us and to keep us from any good things. The power of ‘’worry’’ is very
very strong, that is why I ask each one of us to willingly decide to stop worrying by
being aware of the kind of thought that
is going on his mind and decides whether he or she is going to let play or not
in his mind.
2) FEED YOUR MIND.
Human beings
are what they listen to, they are what they read, they are what they watch. So,
we are what we put in our mind. How can
we effectively feed our mind in a way that we will be full of joy, full of
hope, full of hope and happiness, free
from anxiety? We must daily do the following things whether our mind is up or
down. Read inspirational books like the Bible or whatever, listen to
motivational podcast ,surround yourself with positive people, through their
books, videos or seminars etc.
3) Focus
your mind on what you want, not on what you fear.
I strongly
believe that the only law that every person who want to live a better life should
know is: we move tower what we focus on. It is very important to know and daily apply
that law because if we ignore it, we will move tower the negative things that
are going on our mind and we will create them in our real life. That is why it
is very important for us to be aware of what is going in our mind. If we notice
that what is going in our mind is negative, we can stop it and replace it by
what is good and positive. If we neglect it, we will feel bad and we will
create that negativity in our real world.
4) TRUST GOD.
Let me put
it clear, I am not a pastor and my purpose in doing this work is not to change
the belief of anybody. Whatever you believe, I respect you. But I do know that
most people believe in God or a High Power. If we learn to trust God and to cast
all our anxieties in his powerful hands, fully knowing that he is in control
and that he cares about us, we will live
a daily life full of joy, hope and fulfillment. My last words for you are from
Winston Churchill who said : ‘’when I
look back on all these worries I remember the story of the old man who said on
his deadbed that he had a lot of troubles in his life, most of which never
happened’’
Thursday, July 25, 2013
The reason why your life is full of frustrations, worries and many problems
For most
people life means setbacks, anxiety, poverty, unhappiness, endless battle
against something. They never know the joy, the happiness, the abundance and
meaningful life that few people enjoy. Why? Because they don’t know the secret
that enable some people to live a life full of purpose and long true fulfillment.
Here is the reason why you keep living a lousy life.
First of all, before telling you the reason
why your life doesn’t work out, I will introduce you to something that is,
maybe new for you. ‘’This thing’’ is the ways our brain works. According to
researches, our brain is the most powerful computer ever made and it controls
our physiology and the way we act in our daily life.
So, our brain is like a powerful tool that can
make anything happen whether it is good or bad.
Now, you will ask me what my brain has to do with my pitiful life. Let
me tell you, the only one secret that anybody on this earth, that want to get
all the good things on this earth ought to know: this secret is….knowing how to
use your brain in a way that it bring wealth, health, prosperity, happiness, good
relationship to you, let’s say knowing how to use your brain so that it gives
you what you want from your life.
I’m not saying that if you know this rule and
you apply it, you will no longer
experiment some setbacks and hard times in your life, but if you know the rules
and apply it, it will help you to overcome any difficulties, any challenges
that come your way no matter be its power. Knowing and applying correctly this
rule can help you achieve anything you want in your life whether it is money,
happiness, a strong marriage, a strong health…
So like an engine that can only be strong and
perform well, unless its owner uses a very good quality oil, our brain also
performs well when we know and apply the rules that governs its function.
Failing to know this secret is the reason why most people suffer and live a
life full of disappointments and sorrow. Please don’t let that happen to you.
If you truly care about your well-being
it is a must for you to know how to use your brain in order that it gives to
you what you really want in your life. Please click here and start enjoying the immense good things
that are in store for you.
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